backing off?

twice now im my 24 1/2 years of existence that i've been told to stay away from someone. i've always wondered what is so freaking threatning about me? i'm not one of those girls who can stop you at your tracks or make you laugh your guts out when i tell a joke. this makes me at least think of myself in a more positive light :D

the first time it happened was when my good guy bud's girlfriend asked me to stop hanging with him too much. what can i do man, we are very good friends and we enjoy being with each other. we have tons of fun and we have a lot in common. i'm a good girl (yes, demmit i am!) and i would never do anything to jeopardize their relationship. or should i say past relationship ;) now that you two are not together anymore and we are still friends, what does that mean?

and the other time (hopefully my last) was when my ex's girlfriend asked me to stop talking to him, ever. she was pretty nice and cordial when she asked me that i didn't have the heart to bitch back. so i just told her, sure. no problem. i know where your coming from... and seriously, i really do. who would want their boyfriend's exes talking, emailing and keeping touch with them when you two are together? honestly speaking i hate it, but some people who touched your life in a way you can't really just erase from your life just like that. but dude, if you need the space, il give you space, il give you the whole universe if you need it.

so, to put things into perspective, il take this stay-away thing as a compliment. that means im threatening enough to other girls that they need to tell me to back off. that also means im not just an insignificant dot in this universe. im a force to be reckoned with.. i am somebody.