love languages

The Five Love Languages

According to the first test i took, my primary love languages are probably

Physical Touch and Quality Time.

Complete set of results

Physical Touch:		9
Quality Time:		9
Acts of Service:		6
Words of Affirmation:		6
Receiving Gifts:		0

this is the result of my second test.

Your Name: Ira

Total A - Words of Affirmation: 7
Total B - Quality Time: 10
Total C - Receiving Gifts: 0
Total D - Acts of Service: 5
Total E - Physical Touch: 8

HOW TO INTERPRET YOUR PROFILE SCORE: Your highest score indicates your primary love language. Your second highest score indicates your secondary love language. If two scores are identical, you are bilingual (you have two primary love languages). If the scores of your primary language and your secondary language are close (for example, 10 and 9 respectively), it indicates both are important to you. Whatever your spouse does to express love in either of these languages will get emotional points with you. The highest score for any one love language is 12. Having a clear picture of your primary and secondary love languages will explain much of your past behavior. Think back over the past and ask yourself, "What have I most often requested from my spouse?" Chances are your answer will lie within the scope of your primary and secondary love languages. You have been requesting that which would meet your deepest need for emotional love. Your requests, however, might have come across as nagging or criticizing and thus driven your spouse away.

so yeah, i agree with the result of this test. reading the interpretation made me rethink all my past relationships.

yes, i do ask for a lot of quality time, i'm a sucker for affirmation and i'm a very physical person. oh my gawd, is this a recipe for relationship disaster? is this why all my past relationships didn't work out the way i want them to? haha all i can do is look back and laugh at all my stupid mistakes. you would think that after one relationship i'd learn not to make the same mistakes again, but alas! i still do. i know i know, friends tell me that it's not me, it's them.. but come to think of it, they're right! haha words of a bitter b*itch. but see, it says so in the result

Your requests, however, might have come across as nagging or criticizing and thus driven your spouse away.

yeah, yeah. like i need to be reminded of how single i am right now.

let's breakdown all my love languages. (like you care but it's my blog and i can blab about anything i want to :p)

i like to get physical with partners and friends and everybody else. no, perv not THAT kind of physical. people who know me well know that i'm a touchyfeely person. it's my signature mannerism, my touchtouch. i don't know why i like doing that so much. it's always been my mannerism for as long as i remember. my mom used to hate it when i did it to her. nobody wanted to sleep beside me because i did it even with my eyes closed. some like it, some hate it and some even caught the touchtouch bug too! else used to love it when i did that to her. she sat beside me during class just to get my famous "haplos". well, more infamous than famous. ok, ok a lot more people hate it more than love it but i'm still going to do it! try to stop me. it usually works :D

quality time? who doesn't like quality time with someone you love? being away from my family and good friends made me realize how much quality time time i lost when i was back home. *bops myself* i like staying at home, catching up with "chismis" with good friends, shopping with my mom, lazy afternoons with my dad, watching tv with my sis, cooking with my grandma, ps2 playing/watching with someone, movies with pals and such. little things make the big things in life more bearable.

what can i say, i am a sucker for affirmation. darn, i think it makes me look like an insecure little b*tch who can't stop whining and can't get her own life! but all i'm asking for really is just a simple miss you or love you or take care at random times, random places and unexpected occasions. hopeless romantic you say? well maybe i am, but wouldn't the world be a better place if people just say random caring thoughts to other people? out of the blue, just for nothing say something nice to someone. it will surely make their day. im betting my life on it.

so there, sue me!